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35 More Harsh Realities You Need to Accept Right Away – Part 2

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35 More Harsh Realities You Need to Accept Right Away – Part 2

Last week, I shared the 35 Harsh Realities You Need to Accept Right Now. Today I’ll share more harsh realities you have to accept.’

  1. ‘Life is hard, but compared to what?’
  2. ‘You’ll never make a difference if you are not different.’
  3. ‘You’ll never attain fulfillment if you work at a job you hate.’
  4. ‘Trusting the Creator eliminates anxiety and worry.
  5. ‘Happiness comes when you don’t chase it.’
  6. ‘Be happy when you are alive because you’ll be dead for a long period.’
  7. ‘You’ll never understand God completely even if you pray, meditate, and study spiritual books every second.’
  8. ‘Positive emotions and feelings come from within, while negative emotions and feelings come from without.’
  9. ‘Jealousy prevents happiness and peace of mind because it leads to competition, hatred, and anger,’
  10. ‘Envy arises when you think someone is happier than you.’
  11. ‘You only find happiness when you are content with yourself.’
  12. ‘There is no shortcut to anything worth having.’
  13. ‘Most of us will never live the life of our dreams because we lack courage.’
  14. ‘A billion dollars cannot afford what friendship can buy.’
  15. ‘No matter how much you plan, things can still go wrong.’
  16. ‘People won’t be impressed if you struggle to impress them.’
  17. ‘Nothing will change if you think the same thoughts every day.’
  18. ‘You can’t create a new personal reality if you don’t change your personality.’
  19. ‘Your content is not interesting if you have few views on your blog or vlog.
  20. ‘How you make money is more important than how much you make.’
  21. ‘If you act like everybody else, nothing special will happen to you.’
  22. ‘When someone betrays you, there is a 99% chance that he will do so again.’
  23. ‘If you become too generous, people will believe your good deeds are their rights.’
  24. ‘Stop talking about your problems. Few people care. Most people have many problems to care about.’
  25. ‘Life has never been and will never be fair.’
  26. ‘Every opinion has a gram of truth.’
  27. ‘Nature is the only reliable word of God.’
  28. ‘Nothing will change in your life if you do nothing and expect God to make the changes.’
  29. ‘You are one decision away from a totally different life.’
  30. ‘Never rely on religious leaders to provide you with enlightening spiritual knowledge. They only gain when you are spiritually dumb.’
  31. ‘You’ll seldom be joyful if your joy depends on what happens around you.’
  32. ‘Achieving big goals is difficult. These goals require years of persistent hard work and doing many things that you don’t like to do.’
  33. ‘The surest way to failure is trying to impress everybody.’
  34.  ‘Your past might screw up with the present if you don’t make peace with it.’
  35. ‘Your life is a reflection of your thoughts, decisions, and actions.

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The Truth About Following Your Dreams

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The Truth About Following Your Dreams

Motivational speakers love advising us to follow our dreams. They usually claim that dream chasing is easy since achieving our dreams only requires us to think positively, find what we love, visualize living the life of our dreams, and work hard. As well, they claim dream chasing is fun and adventurous.

I used to believe these ideas. However, I discarded them after chasing my blogging dreams for about two years and realizing that dream chasing is boring as I always force myself to work, and things seldom work out as I expect. Furthermore, I doubted these ideas after a large percentage of my blogger friends gave up on their blogging dream.

I started blogging in 2018 January, and I made friends with many aspiring bloggers. A year later, 98% of these folks gave up on blogging after experiencing the writer’s block and slow-traffic growth. 

These folks mainly gave up because they found the journey boring, tough, and scary, although they believed in the idea that dream chasing is fun and adventurous. This is a shocking truth many people realize when chasing their dreams. I was also shocked after realizing that the journey isn’t easy, but I decided to keep working and see what will happen. However, sometimes, I feel like deleting my blog.

As well, I usually become extremely anxious when I think about failing to achieve my blogging dreams despite working hard, and I often ask myself whether I’ll continue working on my blog in case I don’t achieve my blogging dream after ten years.

Chasing my blogging dream has thus enlightened me about the shocking truths of dream chasing. After blogging for a while, I noticed that following dreams doesn’t guarantee success, and I discovered that anxiety and doubt are part of the journey.

Anyway, besides these truths, you’ll realize more sad truths when you start following your dreams. For instance, you’ll discover that several people, including your closest folks, will doubt your ability to achieve your dreams.

Another sad truth you’ll realize is that you’ll have to be your own motivator because most people will encourage you to give up. The people who love you will encourage you to get a safe and secure job, and they’ll tell you that dream chasing is for the extraordinary.

The chances of achieving our dreams increase if we know such facts about dream chasing because we’ll prepare ourselves for them, and we won’t be shocked when we realize them. However, the chances are slim when we think it’s easy to chase and achieve dreams because we’ll expect the journey to be fun and adventurous, and we’ll quit after realizing its toughness.

In conclusion, never ever follow your dreams if you think dream chasing is easy because you’ll give up, and you’ll end up being depressed. Only follow them when you are ready to endure obstacles, discouragement, and work persistently despite not seeing progress.

I wish you the best.

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35 Harsh Realities of Life You Need to Accept Right Now

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35 Harsh Realities of Life You Need to Accept Right Now

There are many harsh realities in life. Here are the top 35 harsh realities of life you need to accept right now.

  1. ‘Some of your friends will stop associating with you when their life gets better.’
  2. ‘Motivational books are useless if you don’t take action.’
  3. ‘You might be taken for granted if you put too much effort into your relationships.’
  4. ‘Many people think they are seeking leadership, but POWER is all they want.’
  5. ‘Most people only help you because they don’t want you to be a burden to them.’
  6. ‘Making time for everyone will result in you not having time for yourself.’
  7. ‘You’ll experience negative emotions and feelings, whether you are spiritual or not.’
  8. ‘Passionate love never lasts, but compassionate love does.’
  9. ‘Your thoughts are powerless without feelings and emotions. When you think about something, it appears in the spiritual dimension, and your emotions and feelings pull it into the physical dimension.’
  10.  ‘Nothing is permanent. You might lose what you have today, and acquire more than enough tomorrow.’
  11. ‘Never trust people too much, even your best friends can betray you.’
  12. ‘The person you love the most might hurt you the most.’
  13. ‘Believing in God makes life bearable and meaningful.’
  14. ‘Beware of strangers that are extremely nice to you for no reason. They always want to take advantage of you.’
  15.  ‘There will always be someone better than the person you love, and sometimes this person might become interested in you.’
  16. ‘Don’t reveal your weaknesses to anyone, including your friends or relatives, as they might be tempted to use them against you one day.
  17. ‘Your boss doesn’t care about you. He only cares about his profits.’
  18. ‘People hate hardships and most of them will abandon you during hard times.
  19. ‘No one, including your friends or lover, will love you the way your parents do.
  20. ‘One day, you will die, and whatever you did on planet earth won’t matter.’
  21. ‘Pharmaceutical companies are not interested in treating you. They just want your money, and therefore, they will never manufacture drugs that cure diseases completely.
  22. ‘Prayer only works when it aligns with your thoughts, emotions, feelings, and actions.’
  23. ‘People can forget the many good things you did to them, but they will never forget the one bad thing you did.’
  24.  ‘Looks do matter. Some people will avoid associating with you because they think you are not good looking.’
  25. ‘When you become wiser, you will only enjoy interacting with a few people.’
  26. ‘The lack of money can teach you more about human nature in a short period of time.’
  27. ‘A person you deeply love will die one day.’
  28. ‘Sex is a basic human need. Few people can live without it.’
  29. ‘The number of friends you have will reduce as you get older.’
  30. ‘Some of your friends will be scared if you chase your dreams, and they will secretly wish that you fail.’
  31. ‘Hardships are part of life, and you will face them whether you are deeply spiritual or not. Being spiritual doesn’t eliminate hardships; it just makes them bearable.’
  32. ‘Suppressed emotions are dangerous to your health and relationships because they sometimes erupt violently.’
  33. ‘Embrace failure for it eradicates fake friends.’
  34. ‘We are all brothers and sisters. The earth is our mother, and no one can survive without it.’
  35. ‘If you hate someone, you also hate The Creator, because everybody is a physical representation of the Creator.’

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