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Do You Want to Know Why You Envy Others? Here are the Six Main Factors that Make You Envious

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You become envious when you lack a desired factor you believe is enjoyed by another individual.

Envy is a dangerous emotion because it leads to hate, frustration, and feelings of inadequacy. You must thus avoid it at all costs.

To successfully avoid envy, you must become aware of the following factors that make you vulnerable to envy.

1.Competition

When competing, you always want to win the competition. For this reason, there are high chances you’ll feel envious when your competitor beats you.

That being said, you must be cautious with competition because you might end up feeling envious all your life.

2.Being too Concerned With Other People’s Affairs

If you are so concerned with other people’s affairs, you’ll probably become envious at some point because you’ll keep identifying things that you don’t have, but other people have.

3.Inability to Get What You Want

The failure to achieve one’s goals leads to envy. It’s easier for you to become hateful and envious towards those who easily get the things you want if you fail to get them.

4.Pessimism

Pessimism makes you believe that things will never work out for you. Therefore, if you are a pessimist, you’ll feel bad when you see other people enjoying the things you desire because you’ll believe they are enjoying the things you’ll never have.

5.Arrogance

Arrogant people believe they deserve every good thing because they are important. For this reason, they can’t avoid feeling envious when others progress because they believe they are the only folks who deserve progress.

6.The absence of love

If you are hateful towards a particular person, you’ll definitely become envious if this person makes progress. However, where there is love, there is no envy because a loving heart wishes the best for everybody.

Concluding Remarks              

I usually avoid envy because I find it difficult to work hard when envious. Also, I learned that any action you take with a negative emotion is weak because negativity creates resistance that prevents you from falling into alignment with the universal flow.

Which other factors make people vulnerable to envy? Feel free to air your opinion in the comment box below.

Thank You So Much for Reading.

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  1. Samara

    May 11, 2018 at 11:41 pm

    I hope we all begin to be satisfied with our own lives that we no longer need to compare to others. Great read!

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The Statistics of the Dead and Why I Choose to be Grateful

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The Statistics of the Dead and Why I Choose to be Grateful

If more than 150,000 people die every month, and today none of your friends or family members is dead, then you have a big reason to smile.’ – Sadhguru, Indian Mystic.

Before falling in love with esoteric philosophy, I used to be sad and angry about nothing. My focus on material possessions and the social status prevented me from noticing the infinite blessings I had.

I worried about not having more possessions than my friends, and I was angry at life because some people – who I thought were happy – despised me. This crap ended after I stumbled upon the above quote, meditated on it, and researched about the world’s death rates.

I discovered that more than 2,000 people die every day in car crashes, and about 1 million people die in road crashes every year. Besides car crashes, more than 2.5 million people die from diseases every year, and in total, about 40 million people die every year.

Moreover, I realized that the world has lost about 30 million people from January 1st, 2019 to July 15th, 2019.

These statistics enlightened me that more than 5,000 people die every day, and therefore, more than 10,000 people mourn every day. It then dawned on me that I am a blessed person who must be happy every day because all my family members are alive.

Again, the death statistics reminded me of how stupid I had been: I always worried about lacking replaceable material possessions instead of being thankful that the most precious people in my life were alive. People who are more willing to help me than the rest of the world

I thus shifted my focus from worry to being grateful for the amazing irreplaceable people I had; the only magnificent beings who can go out of their way to help me.

For this reason, I smile every day when I wake up in the morning and fail to receive death news about my family members. I know I will lose my loved ones one day, but in this period that they are alive, I know I have a BIG reason to be happy and thankful for the mysterious grace that keeps them alive.

May the Infinite Intelligence bless all your family members, and enlighten you about their importance in your life so that you love and be grateful for them.

May Peace of Mind be With You.

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8 Major Reasons Why Ego is the Enemy

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8 Major Reasons Why Ego is the Enemy

Ego is an exaggerated sense of self-importance. Although it has enabled many individuals to succeed, its side effects have made it the main cause of failure, hatred, separation, and all other negative factors. Here, I’ll enlighten you about the disadvantages of the ego by providing the eight major reasons why ego is the enemy.

1.Ego is Competitive

The ego makes you competitive because it wants you to be better than everyone else. It wants to feel important because it hates equality. This competitive mindset induced by the ego makes you less creative and impatient. Besides, it makes it difficult for you to collaborate with people to achieve a common goal.

2.Ego Prevents You From Focusing on the Process

It’s difficult to build your skills when you are egotistic because the ego focuses more on the end-goal than the process. It mostly cares about results, showing off, glory, and admiration, hence increasing your chances of failure.

3.Ego Prevents You From Making Friends

The ego prevents you from making friends because it makes you arrogant and self-centered. Few people love arrogant, and self-centered folks because they are prone to envy and hate. Furthermore, the ego prevents you from making friends because it loves dominating all conversations to prove that you know everything.

4.Ego makes you Overestimate Your Abilities

Ego makes you believe you can handle everything on your own hence preventing you from working with others. It also makes you unwilling to learn from other folks because it believes you know everything. Moreover, it eliminates the desire to improve your skills because it makes you think you are too skilled for improvement.

5.Ego Makes you Give up Easily

The ego focuses on the outcome and therefore makes you give up easily when you don’t get the desired outcome after a certain period. Moreover, it wants quick success and will thus make it difficult for you to embrace patience when success seems far.

6.Ego results in Poor Decision Making

The ego desires acknowledgment and acceptance. For this reason, it results in you making decisions that align with the need for glory and fame instead of making decisions that will help build your career or improve your skills. Besides this, it prevents you from asking for advice when making important decisions because it makes you excessively arrogant.

7.The Ego Makes You Judgmental

The ego loves judging people so that it feels better than them. It makes you focus on finding faults with other people so that you feel superior to them.

Judging is bad because it disconnects you from love hence preventing you from aligning with Infinite Intelligence, which is a loving power.

8.The Ego Leads to Envy

The ego makes you believe you are the only one who deserves progress hence making you envious when you see other people make progress.

Read ‘Why Ego is the Main Source of Anger and Envy’ for more details on how the ego causes envy.

Conclusions

That being said, you must learn to control your ego because its negative effects can lead to unhappiness and prevent you from making progress.

Thanks For Reading

Hope you enjoyed reading the major reasons that make ego the enemy. You are free to add more reasons why ego is the enemy in the comment box below.

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