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Do You Want to Know Why You Envy Others? Here are the Six Main Factors that Make You Envious

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Envy occurs when you feel bad about other people’s possessions, or qualities. You primarily become envious when you lack a desired factor that you believe is enjoyed by another individual.

Envy is a dangerous emotion because it makes you feel inadequate, and leads to hate, frustration, and many more negative feelings. For this reason, you must avoid being envious at all costs.

To successfully avoid being envious, you must be aware of the following factors that make you vulnerable to envy.

  1. Competition

When competing, you always want to win the competition. For this reason, there are high chances you will feel resentful towards your competitors’ achievements if they beat you.

That being said, you must be cautious with competition because you might end up feeling envious all your life.

  1. Being too Concerned With Other People’s Lives

If you are so concerned with knowing other people’s affairs, you will probably become envious at some point, because you will keep identifying things that you don’t have, but other people have.

  1. Inability to Get What You Want

My experience with envy enabled me to realize that the most envious people are those who fail to achieve their goals. It is easy for you to become hateful and envious towards those who easily get the things you want if you fail to get what you want. I believe you have realized that most people who fail in life are envious towards successful individuals.

  1. Pessimism

Pessimism makes you believe that life will never work out for you. Therefore, if you see other people possessing the things you desire, you feel envious because you believe that these individuals are enjoying the things you’ll never have.

However, it’s difficult for optimistic people to be envious because they believe they can get what other people have.

  1. Arrogance

Arrogant people believe they deserve every good thing because they are so important. They can’t avoid feeling envious when others progress because they believe they are the only folks who deserve progress.

  1. The absence of love

If you are hateful towards a particular person, you will definitely become envious if this person progresses in life. However, where there is love, there is no envy because a loving heart wishes the best for everybody.

Concluding Remarks

I usually avoid envy because I find it difficult to work hard when envious. Also, I learned that any action you take with a negative emotion is weak because negativity creates resistance that prevents you from falling into alignment with the universal flow.

Which other factors make people vulnerable to envy? Feel free to air your opinion in the comment box below.

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  1. Samara

    May 11, 2018 at 11:41 pm

    I hope we all begin to be satisfied with our own lives that we no longer need to compare to others. Great read!

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Why Ego is the Main Source of Anger and Envy (Ego Part 2)

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After realizing that the ego impedes personal growth, I decided to study and contemplate about it. It then dawned on me that the ego is our enemy because it’s the primary source of anger and envy.

The ego as I defined in the article, The Era of the Ego and the Destruction of Intuition, is a feeling of self-importance. The ego makes you believe you are more important than other members of the society and, therefore, you must be heard, respected, admired, and followed. It makes you believe that you are always right and everybody else is wrong.

The ego can result in you being angered by petty issues. For instance, it can make you outraged by any action or word that appears to disrespect you. Insults (even from kids), and petty jokes will make you angry if you are egoistic. You’ll even get mad when people ignore you or argue with you because the ego believes you deserve admiration and no one must argue against your beliefs because you are always right.

Anger arises when you misinterpret things. The ego will thus make you prone to anger since it’s the King of misinterpretation. For instance, if an individual accidentally steps on your foot, the ego will believe it was intentional hence making you angry.

Besides causing anger, the ego also causes envy. You become envious when you feel resentful when other people progress, succeed, or attain something you don’t have.

The ego causes envy because it hates to see others appear more important than you. If your neighbor succeeds or buys something you believe makes her more important than you, the ego feels bad because your neighbor’s progress makes it feel inferior or less important. The ego always wants you to be ahead of everybody so that you become the most important person. It’s hurt when others progress faster than you and appear more important hence making you feel envious.

For this reason, the next time you feel angry or envious, realize that it’s the ego causing these feelings. Then separate yourself from the ego and know that it’s an illusion since it isn’t your true self. Your true self is an extension of Infinite Intelligence/Cosmic Consciousness, and it never gets angry because it interprets everything positively. Moreover, it’s never envious because it understands that we are all connected and we must rejoice in others’ success.

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6 Unique Ways to Deal with Anxiety

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I used to suffer from chronic anxiety because I worried about everything. Luckily, I discovered how to eradicate this gnawing feeling.

Anxiety is mainly defined as ‘feelings of tension or worry about a future outcome.’ Many people today are anxious about everything. In the article, ‘The Era of Anxiety and the Destruction of Intuition,’ I described the factors that make modern society anxious.

Anyway, anxiety has many side-effects. It causes sleep problems, digestive disorders, and prevents us from having a clear mind. For this reason, you must strive to get rid of anxious thoughts whenever they attack you.

Here are 6 ways you can deal with anxious thoughts:

1.Meditate on Infinite Intelligence

Think about the power that created the universe. Think about its greatness and willingness to support life. Realize that it exists in all life forms including you, and therefore, you have nothing to worry about if the power that created the universe exists within you.

2.Watch Nature Documentaries

Watching nature documentaries makes you shift from worrying, to thinking about the wonders of the universe. They are my best treatment for anxiety.

Research reveals that they eradicate anxious thoughts because they increase positive emotions. Besides this, they evoke feelings of awe which studies reveal are a good treatment for anxiety

3.Sing a Song of Praise

I started singing songs of praise to Infinite Intelligence/God after realizing that they eradicate anxiety. Anxiety mainly attacks you when you focus too much on yourself. The songs of praise thus eliminate anxiety as they make you focus on Infinite Intelligence.

N/B – I used to be against songs of praise because I believed there is no need to praise God. However, I embraced them after realizing that God has to be praised. If we praise our friends, families, and strangers for their accomplishments, why can’t we praise God for what ‘he’ has done?

“Were I a nightingale, I would act the part of a nightingale; were I a swan, the part of a swan, but since I am a reasonable creature, it is my duty to praise God.”Epictetus, Stoic Philosopher.

4.Realize that You Can Die At Any Moment

Knowing this fact about death enables you to realize that you might be worrying about a future that might arrive when you are dead. It makes you live in the moment and stop worrying about an unguaranteed future.

5.Realize That Anxiety is Bad for You

Know that anxiety is bad for you as it causes increased blood pressure, breathing problems, digestive disorders, and erectile dysfunction (for men). It also reduces productivity, and destroys your intuitive abilities.

Being conscious of the side effects of anxiety will enable you to quickly recognize and ignore anxious thoughts hence preventing you from succumbing to anxiety.

6..Try Medical Marijuana

I used to be against marijuana, but I adopted a positive attitude towards it after realizing that most ancient cultures involved it in their religious practices. Ancient cultures realized its importance on our mental health.

Today, studies have realized that marijuana temporarily eliminates anxious thoughts as it makes individuals feel calm. It also relieves the symptoms of anxiety by making individuals think everything is okay.

N/B – However, you must only use marijuana when free because it will reduce your productivity.

Apart from the above methods, I believe there are many other ways to deal with anxious thoughts. You are free to mention them in the comment box below:

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