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4 Secrets to Living A Wonderful Life

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After thinking and reading a lot about life, I realized that even though life is challenging, we have the power to make it wonderful because our happiness and peace of mind lies in our hands. We can take the responsibility of making our life wonderful instead of waiting for a supernatural power to do so on our behalf.

Today, I’m so happy to enlighten you with the secrets to living a wonderful life.

1.Love Everybody

You’ll live a wonderful life if you love everybody because love enables you to avoid resentfulness, envy, jealousy, the need to revenge, and many other negative states of mind. Loving everybody also prevents you from taking things personally. Besides this, it enables you to understand people as they are hence making it difficult for anybody to hurt you.

2. Achieve Financial Freedom

Financial freedom means being able to meet all your financial needs without having to work for someone. Financial freedom makes your life wonderful because it allows you to do what you want to do, instead of what you must do. Just imagine waking up and doing whatever you wish to do without worrying about your paycheck. How will your life be?

Financial freedom is awesome. It frees you from your bosses, a strict schedule, and doing things forcefully just because you want to earn an income.

3. Make Money Doing What You Love

Most of us have a boring life because we spend a large part of our life in jobs we hate. We report to work, not because we love our jobs, but because we want the paycheck.

Folks who enjoy life earn a living doing what they love. Just imagine waking up and rushing to the office or your business because you really love what you do. Imagine financing your needs by doing what you love.

Trust me, when you do what you love, you won’t feel like your job or business is a burden because you will enjoy every moment of your work. You’ll find life to be so wonderful and exciting.

4. Stop Giving A Fuck

Most of us are sad because we give too many fucks about things that don’t matter. We care about what other people will say or think if we wear certain clothes, drive a certain car, live in a certain neighborhood, or date a certain type of person.

We don’t realize that we can live a wonderful life when we stop caring about other people’s opinions, expectations, values, and beliefs. Giving no fucks enables us to live a wonderful life because it helps us attain a sense of inner peace.

Conclusion

Most people can’t live a wonderful life because it demands them to do difficult things. They’ll have to love everyone, stop caring, achieve financial freedom, and earn their living from their passion. These things seem easy to do when you read them, but once you try doing them, you’ll realize that they are so difficult to embrace. Imagine trying to love people who betrayed or insulted you. It’s hard, but you’ll have to do so if you really want to live a wonderful life.

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  1. Purity

    June 26, 2019 at 6:39 pm

    My life was a rat race until I found out what my purpose in life is……
    Am loving and enjoying my life now.

    • Isaac Wechuli

      June 26, 2019 at 7:21 pm

      good. what did u discover as your purpose??

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The Truth About Following Your Dreams

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The Truth About Following Your Dreams

Motivational speakers love advising us to follow our dreams. They usually claim that dream chasing is easy since achieving our dreams only requires us to think positively, find what we love, visualize living the life of our dreams, and work hard. As well, they claim dream chasing is fun and adventurous.

I used to believe these ideas. However, I discarded them after chasing my blogging dreams for about two years and realizing that dream chasing is boring as I always force myself to work, and things seldom work out as I expect. Furthermore, I doubted these ideas after a large percentage of my blogger friends gave up on their blogging dream.

I started blogging in 2018 January, and I made friends with many aspiring bloggers. A year later, 98% of these folks gave up on blogging after experiencing the writer’s block and slow-traffic growth. 

These folks mainly gave up because they found the journey boring, tough, and scary, although they believed in the idea that dream chasing is fun and adventurous. This is a shocking truth many people realize when chasing their dreams. I was also shocked after realizing that the journey isn’t easy, but I decided to keep working and see what will happen. However, sometimes, I feel like deleting my blog.

As well, I usually become extremely anxious when I think about failing to achieve my blogging dreams despite working hard, and I often ask myself whether I’ll continue working on my blog in case I don’t achieve my blogging dream after ten years.

Chasing my blogging dream has thus enlightened me about the shocking truths of dream chasing. After blogging for a while, I noticed that following dreams doesn’t guarantee success, and I discovered that anxiety and doubt are part of the journey.

Anyway, besides these truths, you’ll realize more sad truths when you start following your dreams. For instance, you’ll discover that several people, including your closest folks, will doubt your ability to achieve your dreams.

Another sad truth you’ll realize is that you’ll have to be your own motivator because most people will encourage you to give up. The people who love you will encourage you to get a safe and secure job, and they’ll tell you that dream chasing is for the extraordinary.

The chances of achieving our dreams increase if we know such facts about dream chasing because we’ll prepare ourselves for them, and we won’t be shocked when we realize them. However, the chances are slim when we think it’s easy to chase and achieve dreams because we’ll expect the journey to be fun and adventurous, and we’ll quit after realizing its toughness.

In conclusion, never ever follow your dreams if you think dream chasing is easy because you’ll give up, and you’ll end up being depressed. Only follow them when you are ready to endure obstacles, discouragement, and work persistently despite not seeing progress.

I wish you the best.

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35 More Harsh Realities You Need to Accept Right Away – Part 2

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35 More Harsh Realities You Need to Accept Right Away – Part 2

Last week, I shared the 35 Harsh Realities You Need to Accept Right Now. Today I’ll share more harsh realities you have to accept.’

  1. ‘Life is hard, but compared to what?’
  2. ‘You’ll never make a difference if you are not different.’
  3. ‘You’ll never attain fulfillment if you work at a job you hate.’
  4. ‘Trusting the Creator eliminates anxiety and worry.
  5. ‘Happiness comes when you don’t chase it.’
  6. ‘Be happy when you are alive because you’ll be dead for a long period.’
  7. ‘You’ll never understand God completely even if you pray, meditate, and study spiritual books every second.’
  8. ‘Positive emotions and feelings come from within, while negative emotions and feelings come from without.’
  9. ‘Jealousy prevents happiness and peace of mind because it leads to competition, hatred, and anger,’
  10. ‘Envy arises when you think someone is happier than you.’
  11. ‘You only find happiness when you are content with yourself.’
  12. ‘There is no shortcut to anything worth having.’
  13. ‘Most of us will never live the life of our dreams because we lack courage.’
  14. ‘A billion dollars cannot afford what friendship can buy.’
  15. ‘No matter how much you plan, things can still go wrong.’
  16. ‘People won’t be impressed if you struggle to impress them.’
  17. ‘Nothing will change if you think the same thoughts every day.’
  18. ‘You can’t create a new personal reality if you don’t change your personality.’
  19. ‘Your content is not interesting if you have few views on your blog or vlog.
  20. ‘How you make money is more important than how much you make.’
  21. ‘If you act like everybody else, nothing special will happen to you.’
  22. ‘When someone betrays you, there is a 99% chance that he will do so again.’
  23. ‘If you become too generous, people will believe your good deeds are their rights.’
  24. ‘Stop talking about your problems. Few people care. Most people have many problems to care about.’
  25. ‘Life has never been and will never be fair.’
  26. ‘Every opinion has a gram of truth.’
  27. ‘Nature is the only reliable word of God.’
  28. ‘Nothing will change in your life if you do nothing and expect God to make the changes.’
  29. ‘You are one decision away from a totally different life.’
  30. ‘Never rely on religious leaders to provide you with enlightening spiritual knowledge. They only gain when you are spiritually dumb.’
  31. ‘You’ll seldom be joyful if your joy depends on what happens around you.’
  32. ‘Achieving big goals is difficult. These goals require years of persistent hard work and doing many things that you don’t like to do.’
  33. ‘The surest way to failure is trying to impress everybody.’
  34.  ‘Your past might screw up with the present if you don’t make peace with it.’
  35. ‘Your life is a reflection of your thoughts, decisions, and actions.

You are welcome to add more harsh realities in the comment box below.

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