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4 Secrets to Living A Wonderful Life

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After thinking and reading a lot about life, I realized that even though life is challenging, we have the power to make it wonderful because our happiness and peace of mind lies in our hands. We can take the responsibility of making our life wonderful instead of waiting for a supernatural power to do so on our behalf.

Today, I’m so happy to enlighten you with the secrets to living a wonderful life.

1.Love Everybody

You’ll live a wonderful life if you love everybody because love enables you to avoid resentfulness, envy, jealousy, the need to revenge, and many other negative states of mind. Loving everybody also prevents you from taking things personally. Besides this, it enables you to understand people as they are hence making it difficult for anybody to hurt you.

2. Achieve Financial Freedom

Financial freedom means being able to meet all your financial needs without having to work for someone. Financial freedom makes your life wonderful because it allows you to do what you want to do, instead of what you must do. Just imagine waking up and doing whatever you wish to do without worrying about your paycheck. How will your life be?

Financial freedom is awesome. It frees you from your bosses, a strict schedule, and doing things forcefully just because you want to earn an income.

3. Make Money Doing What You Love

Most of us have a boring life because we spend a large part of our life in jobs we hate. We report to work, not because we love our jobs, but because we want the paycheck.

Folks who enjoy life earn a living doing what they love. Just imagine waking up and rushing to the office or your business because you really love what you do. Imagine financing your needs by doing what you love.

Trust me, when you do what you love, you won’t feel like your job or business is a burden because you will enjoy every moment of your work. You’ll find life to be so wonderful and exciting.

4. Stop Giving A Fuck

Most of us are sad because we give too many fucks about things that don’t matter. We care about what other people will say or think if we wear certain clothes, drive a certain car, live in a certain neighborhood, or date a certain type of person.

We don’t realize that we can live a wonderful life when we stop caring about other people’s opinions, expectations, values, and beliefs. Giving no fucks enables us to live a wonderful life because it helps us attain a sense of inner peace.

Conclusion

Most people can’t live a wonderful life because it demands them to do difficult things. They’ll have to love everyone, stop caring, achieve financial freedom, and earn their living from their passion. These things seem easy to do when you read them, but once you try doing them, you’ll realize that they are so difficult to embrace. Imagine trying to love people who betrayed or insulted you. It’s hard, but you’ll have to do so if you really want to live a wonderful life.

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  1. Purity

    June 26, 2019 at 6:39 pm

    My life was a rat race until I found out what my purpose in life is……
    Am loving and enjoying my life now.

    • Isaac Wechuli

      June 26, 2019 at 7:21 pm

      good. what did u discover as your purpose??

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The Most Effective Gratitude Formula

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The Most Effective Gratitude Formula

I embraced gratitude after reading that gratitude is beneficial for one’s mental and spiritual health. However, I never experienced the benefits of gratitude even after practicing it for a while.

It then dawned on me that I used the wrong gratitude formula after reading Joe Vitale’s book, The Secret Prayer. In the book, Joe Vitale provides an amazing gratitude formula that enabled me to experience all the benefits of gratitude.

According to Joe Vitale, we must practice gratitude by being thankful for all the small things in our lives. He thus provided the following example of a gratitude prayer for a small pottery bowl:

‘Thank you, bowl, for being in my life and for being present in this corner of my desk to brighten and beautify this corner of my life. I am so deeply appreciative of your rich red, which reminds me of manifestation and the root chakra. I appreciate your red color, beautiful little pottery bowl. Thank you for reminding me how connected to the earth we are as I think about the clay, which the potter utilized to mold and shape you, beautiful pottery bowl (Joe Vitale, The Secret Prayer).’

This gratitude prayer reminded me about the many small things that I took for granted even though they helped me in my daily life. For this reason, I created gratitude prayers for my laptop, spoon, chair, table, cup, shoes, bed, mattress, and every small thing I had.

For instance, I thanked my laptop for enabling me to conduct internet research and post articles. Primarily, I thanked it for enabling me to make money from home. Besides this, I thanked my mattress for enabling me to sleep comfortably, and for reminding me that some people sleep on a cold floor.

The gratitude prayers for my laptop, mattress and all other small things made me realize that I always take my blessings for granted. I realized how foolish I was not to notice that I am blessed with the little things I need to live a comfortable life.

You must also try this gratitude formula and you’ll be amazed by how it will make you a positive and happy person. Create a gratitude prayer for everything that makes you happy or comfortable.  By doing this, you’ll realize that you are always blessed even in hard times because you never lack the small but important things. You seldom lack food to eat, clothes to wear, a bed to sleep, a phone to communicate with your loved ones, and many other things.

Peace be with you.

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7 Things We Must Stop Doing If We Want to be Happy

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We all want to be happy because happiness is a wonderful emotion. However, we seldom find happiness because we constantly do things that steal our happiness. Some people are conscious of these things, while most of us aren’t.

This article strives to increase your happiness levels by listing the seven major things we must stop doing if we want to be happier.

1.Living Up to the Society’s Expectations

We love living up to the society’s expectations, and we thus become unhappy when we are in a position that prevents us from aligning with what the society wants. Besides, living up to the society’s expectations makes us unhappy because it prevents us from being authentic.

2.Overanalyzing the Future

Overanalyzing the future by trying to pinpoint all possibilities steals our happiness because it results in anxiety. It makes us constantly worry about the things that can go wrong, even when they are beyond our control.

3.Wanting What Others Have

Most of us are addicted to wanting what celebrities, politicians and our Facebook friends have. We think we’ll live happier lives if we obtain what these folks have. Little do we know that wanting what others have causes unhappiness because it results in envy and makes us feel inadequate. 

4.Watching the News

The News makes us over-focus on the negative part of life by showing us how other people are suffering, and it usually results in us worrying about things that are beyond our circle of influence.

5.Forcing People to Behave the Way We Want

We become frustrated when we force people to behave the way we want because we can’t control their environment, thoughts, and everything that affects their behavior. I stopped forcing my friends and siblings to behave the way I want, and I strived to accept their behavior after realizing that my efforts often resulted in anger and disappointment, which eventually made me unhappy.

6.Identifying With Our Material Possessions

Identifying our worth with our material possessions leads to sadness when we lose them. Moreover, it results in us constantly worrying about losing our possessions and how we’ll replace them.

7.Holding Grudges

‘Anger, resentment, and hatred are poisons that you drink, and you expect somebody else to die.’ –Sadhguru, Indian Mystic

Holding a grudge against someone makes us unhappy because it leads to negative emotions such as anger, hate, jealousy, and resentment. Furthermore, it makes us dwell on bad feelings or the events that led to the grudge. Also, it prevents us from enjoying the present moment by making us focus on how we’ll get back at those who wronged us.

Conclusion

The universe provided us with everything we need to be happy. However, we sabotage our happiness by doing the above things. We must, therefore, stop doing them if we want to be happy.

THE END

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