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Forgiveness Is Overrated

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Ever since I was a kid, I’ve been advised to forgive whoever hurts me and forget what they did? However, when people wrong me, I find it hard to forgive and forget. Besides this, I realized that those who advised me to forgive and forget find it hard to do so. I, therefore, questioned forgiveness and realized it’s overrated.

Although I doubt that forgiveness is the way to ‘heaven’, I firmly agree that forgiveness is beneficial. Forgiveness eliminates resentfulness, promotes inner peace, and allows you to focus on what matters. For this reason, forgiveness is a good thing. But is it easy?

The so-called religious folks usually preach forgiveness as if it is an easy thing to do. They want you to forgive those who wronged you immediately and forget what they did.  In fact, they want you to pray for them and help them when necessary.

I totally agree with praying and even helping those who hurt you because this enables you to be at peace with them. However, I don’t think it’s necessary to do so. I believe you only forgive and pray for these folks when you are ready. You must not force yourself to forgive because you think it’s the best thing to do. Forcing yourself to forgive is pointless because you’ll still have negative feelings towards a person.

You can’t just easily forgive someone after he kills your mother, rapes your cousin, and eats your dog. It’s hard, and it’s okay not to forgive this person as long as the lack of forgiveness does not affect your inner peace and your ability to focus on what really matters.

Never think that you’ll never move on if you don’t forgive someone because you’ll do so as time passes. Time heals wounds. Moreover, never ever think that Infinite Intelligence/God will judge you for not forgiving. God’s way of thinking is higher than ours, and God does not care whether you forgive or not. In addition, God is not like us; God is a spirit which we know nothing about, and it’s thus stupid to claim that this Spirit demands us to forgive those who hurt us.

I’m not advising you to hate those who wronged you. I just want you to know that it’s okay if you are unable to forgive someone. I know religion and spiritual teachers have made you feel bad about yourself for being unable to forgive.

It’s good to forgive, but forgive when you feel in your heart that it’s time to forgive, and you’ll never have negative emotions towards those who wronged you.

One thing I must also tell you is that, even though you might find it hard to forgive, never ever wish bad things to happen to those who wronged you because you’ll feel bad when good things happen to them.

Lastly, stop thinking about those who wronged you and work hard towards your dream because when you live the life of your dreams, life will be so good for you that you won’t find the time to think about those who wronged you.

‘Forgive and forget? I’m neither Jesus nor do I have Alzheimer’s – Agnieszka

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  1. alanmaiccon

    January 16, 2019 at 1:35 pm

    Only in a relaxed state of mind to forgive someone. I have been holding back negative feelings for a long time because I thought that this would keep people from hurting me from doing it again. However, when I have kept my focus totally on healing and not on anger, I have been raised to a level that I can forgive effortlessly in prayer, meditation, reflection. Cleanliness is something natural and should not be forced.

    Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at will change. – Wayne Dyer

    Great Wechuli article.

  2. Jeanine Byers

    January 18, 2019 at 7:37 pm

    I love that last quote! Ha!! I agree that forgiveness is for you, not the other person. But I don’t agree that time heals all wounds. If you feed them, those wounds will turn to bitterness and resentment over time, and steal your piece. Doing that is that taking poison & hoping the other person dies. I agree that we forgive when we’re ready, and I don’t think religious people suggest forgiving right away – that would be fake, which doesn’t help anyone. We can pray for the ability to forgive, and it will come.

  3. Isaac Wechuli

    January 19, 2019 at 5:49 am

    time heals wounds when you don’t feed them….and i don’t believe that much on praying to God to give you things,..i think its our responsibility to practice the art of forgiving and not praying to god to give us the skill

  4. jason

    January 21, 2019 at 4:37 pm

    interesting read. big up!

  5. Purity

    July 28, 2019 at 12:03 pm

    For me forgivenes is crucial for my in we peace…

    No one is righteous,we are all bound to hurt someone in one way or the other and expects them to forgive us when we say we are sorry, so Forgiveness is a two way thing…”treat the other person the way you would like to be treated”.

    • Isaac Wechuli

      July 28, 2019 at 2:57 pm

      true, forgiveness is necessary, and we should forgive others because we expect them to forgive us when we wrong them. However, it’s not an easy process.

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Three Things the Illuminati Don’t Want You to Know (Video Version)

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Three Things the Illuminati Don’t Want You to Know

After studying ancient history and spirituality for a while, I realized that most of us are unaware of many things. For instance, we don’t know about the ancient Annunaki or the existence of strange beings on our planet.

I wondered why we are so ignorant, and I realized that the Illuminati is responsible for this ignorance because it has hidden lots of important information from us.

In this article, I will expose the three main things the Illuminati has hidden from us.

1.Ancient History

After discovering that ancient people performed magic, interacted with celestial beings, cured people using sound, and built buildings that the modern society can’t, I realized that there is a large part of ancient history that the Illuminati has hidden from the public.

For this reason, I studied ancient history deeply, and I discovered several suppressed pieces of information. For instance, I realized that the Illuminati suppressed the information about the Annunaki, who were ancient celestial beings that descended on earth thousands of years ago and gave human beings advanced scientific knowledge. Zecharia Sitchin, in his book, There Were Giants Upon the Earth, describes the Annunaki as the ‘space travelers and interplanetary settlers.’

Besides, the secret society has also hidden information that proves the existence of giants and the fact that ancient people were more advanced than modern folks. You can check out ‘False History-How Deep is the Lie’ and the ‘mystery history channel’ if you want to know more about hidden history.’

I believe the Illuminati is hiding our true history because it wants us to believe that we evolved from monkeys or unintelligent human beings.  As well, it wants us to believe that we are the most intelligent civilization ever because this belief prevents us from studying ancient history and realizing our true nature.

2.The Existence of Elementals

The Illuminati doesn’t want us to know about the existence of elementals. 

The elementals, according to Manly P Hall, ‘are neither flesh nor spirit because they resemble men and spirits. They resemble men in their organization and form, and resemble spirits in the rapidity of their locomotion (The Secret Teachings of All Ages, Manly P. Hall).’

The elementals have both a human and spiritual body. They include Jinns, fairies, goblins mermaids, and so on. According to Paracelsus, ‘they are creatures and spirits; generally invisible to mankind but having physical and commonly humanoid bodies (Jerry Alan, The Hidden Teachings of Christian Mysticism).’

Many ancient cultures knew about the existence of the elementals. Later, the Illuminati and other secret societies started hiding information about these beings hence resulting in the modern society being unaware of them (The best way of hiding the information was asking the people who encountered these beings to avoid telling the masses).

The Illuminati has hidden information concerning these creatures because it knows that we’ll question the validity of science and eventually doubt its reliability in helping us understand the physical world. Moreover, we’ll question our existence and focus on its spiritual part hence making it difficult for the Illuminati to control us.

3.UFO Sightings

Since antiquity, people have reported seeing Unknown Flying Objects (UFOs) in the sky.  According to these reports, the flying objects are disk-shaped and possess the ability to move at unimaginable speeds.

The Illuminati has concealed all evidence that proves the existence of these flying objects because it doesn’t want people to know about the possibility of traveling to other planets. Besides, it doesn’t want people to know that advanced beings exist and we can interact with them.

The Illuminati knows it will be difficult to control people if they know such facts.

Conclusions

There are many things the Illuminati doesn’t want us to know because it fears that we might question the reality it has created for us if we know them. For this reason, it hides all information that can enlighten us about these things.

We must thus strive to know the hidden information because it will enable us to discover the miraculous side of the physical universe, our true nature, and the true reason why the world exists.

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