I once cared about other people’s opinions on what I should do, how I should dress, or where I must go. However, I immediately stopped caring when I realized the following catastrophic effects that caring about other people’s thoughts or opinions could have on an individual.
Caring about other people’s thoughts/opinions:-
- Eradicates self-confidence
You will never believe in yourself if you care what other people/say or think about you because not everybody will say something good about you.
- Leads to excessive worry
It’s easy for you to become a chronic worrier if you excessively care about people’s opinions. You will always worry whether people will approve whatever you are doing or how you look.
- Limits authenticity
Caring about other people’s opinions prevents you from being authentic. Authenticity occurs when an individual does the things he likes or when a person does what he knows makes him happy. Without authenticity, a person will never be truly happy.
- Can result in wrong decision making
The best decisions are often made when there is no outside influence on the decision-making process because we are the only persons who know what we have gone through, and what we really want in life. Besides this, we are the only ones who know the effects some decisions might have on us.
Caring what other people say can result in you making a wrong decision about your career, relationship life, or other fundamental areas of your life that require you to make a decision with minimal external influence.
- Results in conformity
Conformity occurs when a person’s behaviour aligns with socially accepted conventions. Conformity is an enemy to progress because it turns you into a follower instead of a leader. Also, apart from being a follower, conformity limits your creativity because it prevents you from thinking for yourself.
With this in mind, will you still care about other people’s opinions? Are you ready to suffer the consequences of caring about what other people say just because you want to conform to the society? For me, I will never ever care about other people’s opinions because I want to use my energy and time to bring a massive change to the people around me, and to the needy. Therefore, I have no time to waste, and I have no energy left in me to care about other people’s opinions.
Thank You for Reading. Have a nice day.
I better create my own system, or be enslaved by those of other men – William Blake
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5 Powerful Reasons Why Passion is a Key to Success
I once believed that we don’t need passion to succeed. However, when I started blogging, I realized that passion is a key to success. I noticed that my passion for blogging made me write articles consistently.
Besides this, my research on successful people enlightened me that successful people are passionate about their jobs. They work 24/7 because they enjoy and love their work.
These findings forced me to think deeply about the relationship between passion and success hence making me realize that passion leads to success because it:
1.Makes it Hard for You to Give Up
It will be hard for you to give up on something when you are passionate because you won’t care about the results. You’ll only care about doing your thing, and you’ll do it even when you don’t get the desired results. For instance, if you love singing, you’ll continue singing even when you only have 5 views on Youtube.
2.Makes You a Hard Worker
Passion makes you work more hours because it makes you obsessed with your work. You’ll want to work whenever you find time because you love your work. Besides this, when you are passionate, you’ll work long hours because you won’t be able to tell the difference between work and play. For you, working will be playing.
3.Changes Your Attitudes Towards Difficulties
People who aren’t passionate about their jobs have a negative attitude towards obstacles. They either see them as threats or messages from the universe that they’ll never succeed.
However, passionate people perceive obstacles as an opportunity for growth. They are always eager to overcome them, and they believe they’ll become better at their craft after overcoming obstacles.
4.Prevents You From Wasting Time
If you do what you love, you’ll be obsessed with work because you’ll be excited about it. For this reason, you’ll want to spend most of your time working, and you’ll avoid wasting time on useless activities such as gossiping or liking and commenting on Facebook posts all day.
Passion leads to obsession, which breeds focus. Focus leads to success because it increases the quality of your work as it makes you more skilled and knowledgeable. Besides this, focus prevents you from making mistakes and breeds consistency hence increasing your chances of succeeding.
People who don’t like their jobs seldom succeed because they mostly focus on getting things done. Moreover, they never reach great heights because they usually lack the motivation to improve their skills. However, passionate people have high chances of succeeding because passion increases focus, motivates them to work hard, and changes their attitude towards difficulties. And, lastly, it makes them want to work all time hence forcing them to avoid time wasting activities.
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My Top 10 Favorite YouTube Channels That Will Make You Wise As Fuck
I love YouTube and I thank Jawed, Steve, and Hurley for founding it because the platform offers an endless number of enlightening channels created by people committed to making you wise.
Here are my favorite YouTube Channels that will make you wise as fuck.
I’m addicted to this YouTube Channel because it has many short videos that inspire folks to curve their own path. Besides this, it also explains enlightening ideas by the Greatest Thinkers such as Carl Yung, Arthur Schopenhauer, and Socrates in a simple way. For this reason, I believe just watching a few videos from the channel will make you wiser
Subscribers – 307k
Those who have read my book: Awaken from The Deep Sleep and the Hidden Truths section of this blog know that I love writing about the Elite and hidden history. The Crow House is responsible for making me inquire more about hidden history because Max Igan provides information that will make you doubt the history you were taught in class.
Max Igan informs viewers how ancient human beings were able to create things we can’t create today, and why he suspects that some people are hiding true history. He also enlightens us about the elite’s system of control and how we can break it.
Here’s one of my favorite videos from the channel – Why Are They Hiding History?
Subscribers – 144k
- Mystery History
My obsession with uncovering the true history of humanity has made me love Mystery History as it proves that ancient man was highly intelligent. I can’t explain more about the channel because I just subscribed to it a week ago. However, the few videos I have watched on the channel have made me ponder about a lost but extremely intelligent civilization that once lived on this earth.
Subscribers – 385k
Alux is a wonderful channel for both luxury enthusiasts and self-help addicts. The channel can make you want to be rich because it shows you the most expensive hotels, mansions, cars, etc. It also provides wonderful pieces of advice that can help you live a prosperous life.
Subscribers – 1.7M
Illacertus summarizes books about power, seduction, and strategy in a magical way. It has a good narrator and wonderful instrumental background music that will make you feel relaxed while watching the videos. I loved how the channel summarized Robert Green’s book The 48 Laws of Power.
Subscribers – 353k
The Art of improvement is a wonderful YouTube channel with short animated videos that aim at helping you succeed. It makes enlightening videos about productivity, creativity, and many more self-help ideas.
You must be very open minded for you to believe anything on Woodward TV. The channel discusses about the possibility of some people controlling us, ancient civilizations, ghosts, aliens, space, giants, the Hat Man, and many more mysterious topics. I love the channel because, besides its cool instrumental background music, it allows me to suspend all my beliefs for a moment and dive into wonderland.
The School of Life is a self-help channel that discusses almost everything about life. The channel provides advice about love, relationships, sex, emotional intelligence, philosophy, the harsh realities of life, and many more things in short clear videos.
Subscribers – 4M
Lilou Mace TV shows Lilou Mace interviewing various people about success, sex, relationships, their spiritual beliefs, angels, and consciousness. I mainly love this channel because most of the videos have enlightening spiritual ideas.
Subscribers – 144k
I really really really love watching wildlife documentaries because animals amaze me and enlighten me about the fundamental truths of life.
Recently, I stumbled upon The Secrets of Nature and I loved it to death. The channel has wonderful short clips and wildlife documentaries that will make you discover the hidden secrets of nature.
Do you want to be wise? Check out these channels and you might become the God of Wisdom. Anyway, I welcome you to comment about your favorite enlightening YouTube Channels in the comment box below.
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